A camgirl is a service provider. It is a role reversal when she asks you to show yourself on webcam. When you pay for a chat, the camgirl should be at your service, not the opposite. A private chat session with a camgirl on webcam isn’t like a chat in a bar. It is not a conversation between friends. You are the customer; she is the service provider.
In fact, you should be the only one to decide whether you want to activate your webcam or not.
I am flexible, and I understand that at some point a camgirl may want to see you on webcam. However, in 100% of cases, I noticed that entitled camgirls wanted to see my face right from the start. So, in this case, these women really think that they had control over me and the paid private chat session. You will waste money if you explain to these camgirls they should not ask visitors to show themselves on webcam. You should leave the chat asap without saying goodbye.
Here is the type of text chat that raises a red flag:
You - Hello, i am andy from the USA and you? Her - Hi, I am mary, can I see your face? You - Please, can you change your outfit and show me your curves? Her - Can I see you too?
I also noticed that it sometimes happened after I asked a question, the camgirl instead of answering asked for C2C (cam2cam).
You have nothing to win by showing your face on a first private chat session with a camgirl that you have never seen before. I did an experiment. I switched on my webcam to see whether the camgirl would be more willing to please me after seeing my face. I compared it with the chat sessions in which I didn’t show my face. I saw no differences. In other words, showing your face on webcam does not mean the camgirl will be more willing to please you. It is not going to positively impact the private chat session or the private live show.
We faced the following situation:
1/ We entered a chatroom.
2/ We asked the camgirl a question or we asked her a simple request that didn’t require her to get naked. (Can you stand up? can you wear tight clothes? Can you wear leggings?)
3/ Rather than answering, she asked us to show our face.
It is a role reversal. A camgirl is a service provider. She should answer the question before asking anything.
How to teach camgirls about this issue?
Several camgirl websites have an offline messaging system. You can explain why her behavior is not acceptable in an offline message rather a paid private chat. Thus, doing so, you will not have regrets after sending her an offline message. She is not worth it if she does not understand your point.
Also, some websites allow user to leave a review. Unfortunately, some adult chat websites don’t let you post negative reviews, but it is worth trying. The technique would be to leave a positive comment and tell that she asked you to show yourself on webcam.
Where can you find camgirls who don’t ask to show your face?
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