Theoretically, it sounds like a clever idea to invite a woman in your country. You don’t need to move anywhere. You can still work when you invite the camgirl. You schedule will remain almost unchanged. In practice, we discovered that it wasn’t as easy as we initially thought.
In case of a disappointment
For some reasons, a camgirl may look much less appealing when you meet her in a face-to-face situation. You may discover that she is much less interesting than when you met her online. This is how she turns into a burden for the man who invited her. So, if you discover that she is not as interesting as you initially thought, taking care of her is going to be annoying for the rest of the time you have to spend with her.
Workload and expenses
If you have invited a woman, you may need to check in and check out on her behalf. Also, you will have to pay for her accommodation. You may also need to pay her the transport. If something goes wrong, these expenses are pure sunk cost. Conversely, expenses related to a trip aren’t a loss because you can enjoy this holiday trip.
Overly attached girlfriend
The camgirl may become an overly attached girlfriend who wants your attention 24/7. It can be quite dangerous if she knows your workplace and your home address. Conversely, if you stay at a hotel in her country, you can always move out to avoid being harassed.
Language barrier
You may need to be her chaperon all the time because she does not speak the language of your country. For instance, I have met a Ukrainian woman online who didn’t read the latin alphabet. She only read the Cyrillic alphabet. This woman wanted to meet me in my country, France. I know for sure, It would have been a disaster if I would have invited her. She would not have been able to read signs and menus and I would have had to babysit her.
Gold digger
Also, it can be quite exhausting to be the guide of a woman. She may want to visit every clothing shop of your city. Then, she may want you to offer her clothes. She may ask you to visit a remote place. For example, a woman in Paris could ask her host to visit Disneyland Paris. (It takes 40 minutes from Paris city centre to reach Disneyland).
In the end, you may turn into a babysitter and a financial provider. It can be quite frustrating and exhausting. Conversely, if you visit her in her country, she will not ask you to visit the local jewelry shop to buy her something. If have never seen such behavior. Also, you can pretend that you are on a business trip to show that you aren’t fully available for her.
Possible scam
A woman can use you to pay flight tickets to get money from you. After receiving the money, she may disappear into the air.
It requires a lot of homework
When you invite a woman, you must check the flight itinerary. You must book the return flight tickets for her. You must find her an accommodation. You must prepare in advance her stay and know what you want to do with her. This requires a significant amount of work.
To visit a camgirl in her country
First, I thought that it was time consuming and dangerous to visit a camgirl in her country.
In the previous option in which you invite a woman, it talked about sunk cost. conversely, when you travel somewhere, there are no sunk cost. You must spend money for your food, your accommodation; things that are compulsory when you travel somewhere. So, even if your date isn’t successful, you can still have a good time discovering a country. Go to nice restaurants and bars on your own. Don’t forget to give yourself a treat.
Example : Colombia :
If you visit Colombia and if you aren’t successful, you will be able to find a backup plan very quickly. There are many places where you can meet women in Colombia in Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena de India. Before flying to Colombia, prepare your strategy in case your date goes wrong. Have as many backup plans as you can.
In some countries, there aren’t any backup plans. For example, if you fly to Paris, I don’t think you can find a backup plan. I would not advise to fly anywhere if a backup plan isn’t guaranteed.
Compared to the previous scenario, you don’t need to be her guide if you go to her country. You don’t need to babysit her. You don’t need to pay her accommodation. You don’t need to visit all museums, shops that she wants to see. Consequently, you don’t spend time and energy for nothing.
Travel helps to protect your intimacy
Also, in this case, you can protect your intimacy and your privacy because the camgirl does not know anything about your address, your job, your personal life, your sentimental life. You never know what a woman can do to harm you after getting to know your personal details.
If it goes wrong, you can instantly stop the relationship when abroad
Also, you can stop seeing this woman easily when you are abroad. On the other hand, if you invited and house her, you can’t kick her out in a blink of an eye.
If a camgirl becomes overly attached and if she knows your address, you can leave your temporary accommodation (hotel, Airbnb) and find a new one. On the other hand, if you invite a woman in your house, she knows your home address and you must confront her. In this case, you are forced to confront and discuss her behavior. So, in this case, it would mean that you spent all this money and time to find yourself trying to get rid of a troublemaker.
It is just not worth inviting a woman if there is a risk of her being a problem.
Conclusion :
It is better to visit a woman in her country. At first sight, it is time consuming and expensive as well but we found that the advantages of such option (privacy, backup plans, lack of burdens) take over its disadvantages.
