A cam model is a service provider. It is a role reversal when she asks you to show yourself on webcam. When you pay for a chat, the cam model should be at your service, not the opposite. A private chat session with a cam model on webcam isn’t like a chat in a bar. It is not a conversation between friends.
You are the customer; she is the service provider. You pay for the chat and she should deliver.
In fact, you should be the only one to decide whether you want to turn on your webcam or not.
I am flexible, and I understand that at some point a cam model may want to see you on webcam. However, in 100% of cases, I noticed that entitled cam models wanted to see my face right from the start. These women really thought they had control over me and the paid private chat session. For your information, you’ll gain any benefits from showing your face on webcam. I know it because i have tested it.
You will waste money if you explain to these cam models they should not ask visitors to show themselves on webcam. You should leave the chat asap without saying goodbye.
Here is the type of text chat that raises a red flag:
You - Hello, i am andy from the USA and you? Her - Hi, I am mary, can I see your face? You - Please, can you change your outfit and show me your curves? Her - Can I see you too?
I also noticed that it sometimes happened after I asked a question, the cam model instead of answering asked for seeing my face.
You have nothing to gain by showing your face on a first private chat session with a cam model that you have never seen before. I did an experiment. I switched on my webcam to see whether the cam model would be more willing to please me after seeing my face. I compared it with the chat sessions in which I didn’t show my face. I saw no differences. In other words, showing your face on webcam does not mean the cam model will be more willing to please you. It is not going to positively impact the private chat session or the private live show.
We faced the following situation:
1/ I entered a chatroom.
2/ I asked the webcam model a question or we asked her a simple request that didn’t require her to get naked. (Can you stand up? can you wear tight clothes? Can you wear leggings?)
3/ Rather than answering, she asked me to show my face.
It is a role reversal. A cam model should not be here to impose her requests upon you except if you explicitly ask her to. She should answer the question before asking anything.
How to teach cam models about this issue?
Several cam model websites have an offline messaging system. You can explain why her behavior is not acceptable in an offline message rather a paid private chat. Thus, doing so, you will not have regrets after sending her an offline message. She is not worth it if she does not understand your point.
Also, some websites allow user to leave a review. Unfortunately, some adult chat websites don’t let you post negative reviews, but it is worth trying. The technique would be to leave a positive comment and tell that she asked you to show yourself on webcam.
Where can you find cam models who don’t ask to show your face?
We found two cam model websites on which women never ask customers to show their faces: Livejasmin, camsoda and streamate.
What to do if this happens to you?
I advise you to leave as soon as a cam model asks you to show your face without saying goodbye. When you enter a chat room, the cam model job is to indulge you. If she can’t, there aren’t any room for chit chat, it is time to leave.
