It’s wild when a cam model asks for extra tokens/credits while you’re already in a paid-per-minute private chat. That’s a double charge. You’re paying for the time and being upsold for the same minute—a bad incentive that pressures you to spend more just to keep things “moving.”
Think of it like this: you’re in an Uber with the meter running and the driver says, “You seem nice—want to send me cash on top?” The ride is already billable. The extra ask isn’t a tip at the end; it’s an upsell mid-ride.
Why it’s a red flag
- Double billing: minute rate + token demand for the same action.
- Time pressure: while you hesitate, the clock keeps charging.
- Sunk-cost trap: “You’ve already spent X, just a bit more…”—classic nudge.
A simple rule
If you’re in paid private, you don’t tip to unlock basics. If a performer wants extra for special requests, that should be pre-agreed (clear amount → clear action), not sprung mid-session.
Quick script you can use
- “I’m already paying per minute. I don’t send extra tokens in private. If there’s a fixed rate for [specific request], state it upfront or let’s keep it simple.”
- If the ask continues: “No thanks—ending the session now.” Then leave. No debates.
Example
You enter a private at $3/min. At minute 4, she asks for 500 tokens (~$50) to “continue.” You’ve already spent $12 in time. If you pay, you’ve rewarded the upsell and invited the same pattern next time.
How to protect yourself
- Set a session policy: “No extra tokens during paid private.” Stick to it.
- Agree upfront: If you want something specific, confirm: cost → action → timing.
- Watch for patterns: “Goal ladders,” moving targets, or “just a little more” are signs to bail.
- Vote with your wallet: Reward models who are transparent—minute rate covers the show, tips are voluntary after.
You can respect the performer and respect your budget. Clear terms or no deal.